Memories When Young
I have some interesting memories of
the place and city where I was born, ones that key me in to my
family's situation in life. What do you remember about your family
when you were very young? The perspectives were much different then,
due to the degree of control and focus you and I possessed.
For example, I remember riding on the
handlebars of a friend's bike, and falling off and skinning my right
knee. Memories of that knee include a large, thick scab that covered
most of it.That taught me to avoid sitting on bicycle handlebars.
Other memories include being taken out of church on a Sunday, by my
father, who was separated from my mother. I was then taken to a
store, which, at the age of three, I knew was wrong, because we
normally observed the Sabbath by refraining from purchases, and the
toy blue jet that my father purchased for me. He then took me to his
parents' home, and tried to get me to take a nap. I believe I found
the jet plane much more interesting. I also remember watching my
mother pitch a fit, and throw the airplane across the room.
What does that say about my family of
origin? They were not unified, and a divorce soon ensued. I was also
interested in technology, as I perceived it, from a very early age.
How does that affect me today? It set the tone for my family's, and
thus my social dynamics, the who-I-am-based-on-my-experiences
setting, and the decisions I have made from that time forward. This
carried into becoming a stepchild, getting a new first, middle, and
last name, and what I have done with those names.
So what are your earliest memories?
Have you written them down, or transcribed them in any way to
electronic media? This leads to the next point...what do you want to
do with your memories, and your past? Recording them is the first
step to assessment.